Like Job in the Bible, friends and family can say many things, but life comes only from God.

Don't feel lonely - God is with you.

When Jesus saw him lying there, and knew that he already had been in that condition a long time, He said to him, “Do you want to be made well?” John 5:6

Just like the man at the pool of Bethesda, Jesus is asking us: "Do you want to be healed?" 

He is not asking us how we want to be healed, etc. It's time to take away all preconceived ideas. Jesus is asking us directly if we want divine intervention in our lives.